Some things, once you’ve loved them, become yours forever. And if you try to let them go, they only circle back and return to you. They become part of who you are…or they destroy you.
Have you ever had that feeling— that you’d like to go to a whole different place and become a whole different self?
E existem aquelas pessoas, que por mais distantes que estejam, ainda continuam perto. Aquelas, que passe o tempo que passar, serão sempre lembradas por algo que fizeram, falaram, mostraram, ou nos fizeram sentir. É isso. As pessoas são lembradas pelos sentimentos que despertaram em nós, e quanto maior o sentimento, maior se torna a pessoa.
— Caio Fernando Abreu. (via aprendizdepoeta)
(Source: inverbos, via aprendizdepoeta)
Preciso admitir, sou muito irônica, e grossa as vezes, um pouco meiga de vez em quando. Gosto do meu lado apaixonada, mas quase nunca aparece. E meu lado safado chega a me assustar. Protetora e ciumenta ao extremo. Tenho um gênio difícil e um temperamento forte. As vezes sou barraqueira, outras, calma até demais. Dura como uma pedra e frágil como um vidro. Um poço de orgulho, e mais conhecida como a rainha do drama, essa sou eu. E sabe o que mais me assusta? Ainda tem gente que gosta.
— Tati Bernardi. (via versificar)
(Source: maisanichole, via versificar)
Mom, my depression is a shape shifter.
One day it is as small as a firefly in the palm of a bear,
The next, it’s the bear.
On those days I play dead until the bear leaves me alone.
I call the bad days: “the Dark Days.”
Mom says, “Try lighting candles.”
When I see a candle, I see the flesh of a church, the flicker of a flame,
Sparks of a memory younger than noon.
I am standing beside her open casket.
It is the moment I learn every person I ever come to know will someday die.
Besides Mom, I’m not afraid of the dark.
Perhaps, that’s part of the problem.
Mom says, “I thought the problem was that you can’t get out of bed.”
I can’t.
Anxiety holds me a hostage inside of my house, inside of my head.
Mom says, “Where did anxiety come from?”
Anxiety is the cousin visiting from out-of-town depression felt obligated to bring to the party.
Mom, I am the party.
Only I am a party I don’t want to be at.
Mom says, “Why don’t you try going to actual parties, see your friends?”
Sure, I make plans. I make plans but I don’t want to go.
I make plans because I know I should want to go. I know sometimes I would have wanted to go.
It’s just not that fun having fun when you don’t want to have fun, Mom.
You see, Mom, each night insomnia sweeps me up in his arms dips me in the kitchen in the small glow of the stove-light.
Insomnia has this romantic way of making the moon feel like perfect company.
Mom says, “Try counting sheep.”
But my mind can only count reasons to stay awake;
So I go for walks; but my stuttering kneecaps clank like silver spoons held in strong arms with loose wrists.
They ring in my ears like clumsy church bells reminding me I am sleepwalking on an ocean of happiness I cannot baptize myself in.
Mom says, “Happy is a decision.”
But my happy is as hollow as a pin pricked egg.
My happy is a high fever that will break.
Mom says I am so good at making something out of nothing and then flat-out asks me if I am afraid of dying.
No.
I am afraid of living.
Mom, I am lonely.
I think I learned that when Dad left how to turn the anger into lonely —
The lonely into busy;
So when I tell you, “I’ve been super busy lately,” I mean I’ve been falling asleep watching Sports Center on the couch
To avoid confronting the empty side of my bed.
But my depression always drags me back to my bed
Until my bones are the forgotten fossils of a skeleton sunken city,
My mouth a bone yard of teeth broken from biting down on themselves.
The hollow auditorium of my chest swoons with echoes of a heartbeat,
But I am a careless tourist here.
I will never truly know everywhere I have been.
Mom still doesn’t understand.
Mom! Can’t you see that neither can I?
— Sabrina Benaim, Explaining my Depression to My Mother; A Conversation (via thinklikeamachine)
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